Yo, el amargado

   Personalmente, creo que el positivismo está sobrevalorado. Sí, así es, eso es lo que creo. No soy una de esas personas que se pasea por la vida pensando que todo son flores de colores y arcoíris brillando por doquier. No, prefiero ver las cosas como son y las cosas son horribles. Es como cuando hay gente que te dice que siempre veas el lado bueno de las cosas. Pues resulta que no todo tiene su lado bueno. Si acaba de morir tu madre, definitivamente no hay nada bueno en eso o sí fuiste asaltado o asaltada sexualmente seguramente no le verás el lado bueno porque no lo hay. Hay idiotas que son capaces de hacerlo pero eso se llama inventar y eso ya no es positivismo sino mentirse a uno mismo.

 Otro ejemplo puede ser cuando hay quien que dice que no existe la gente fea sino mal arreglada. No, eso también es una mentira que solo busca hacernos sentir mejor porque en el mundo de hoy la apariencia lo es todo. La verdad es que la gente fea, como todos los sabemos pero odiamos reconocerlo, existe y están allí por donde se le mire porque la raza humana todavía no ha evolucionado tanto como para que la belleza sea algo estándar. Precisamente son esos gustos diferentes en cada uno los que hacen que en verdad no haya nadie muy bello ni tampoco gente horrible pero si que todos seamos pasable, lo que es bastante deprimente. Porque mentirnos a nosotros mismos con cremas, perfumes, lociones, pociones, ropa y joyas? Porque no vernos como somos y encontrar lo que nos hace únicos.

 Eso sí, hay que aclarar que somos más de siete mil millones de seres humanos por lo que ningún rasgo es en verdad único pero sí poco frecuente y eso es a lo que deberíamos apuntar si estamos obsesionados con la belleza física. Lo mejor de ti son tus piernas? Aprovéchalas. Los ojos? Lo mismo y así. Pero nunca es lo mejor mentirse a uno mismo porque a lo único que eso lleva a ser a tener decepciones de todo tipo. Y son decepciones que uno mismo se causa por vivir en las nubes y pensar que el mundo es lindo, bello y perfecto. Hay gente fea y hay gente considerada guapa. Así son las cosas y con esas condiciones debemos jugar con lo que hay y, de hecho, eso hace que todo sea más divertido.

 Algo que puede sonar trillado pero es cierto, es que la belleza interior sirve pero solo sirve si hay alguna forma de atraer a los demás para que la conozcan. Porque todos sabemos que a nadie le atraer la belleza interior de entrada. Eso es imposible porque es algo que no se ve. Y por favor no piensen que la internet y los teléfonos prueban lo contrario porque no es así, eso son solo más mentiras que decidimos creer a voluntad. No, hay que llamar la atención, como lo hacen los animales en el cortejo y luego sí dejar ver nuestra personalidad, a condición de que haya cosas en ella que sean interesante y que valga la pena mostrar. Porque si nuestro interior es aburrido, ni la cara del David Miguel Ángel va a ayudar a nada.

 Otra cosa que me hacer ser amargado, es que detesto los sin sentidos. Las chicas con flores tropicales en la cabeza, las personas que visten igual todos los días, la gente que no sabe conducir o aquellos que están siempre orgullosos de su enorme ignorancia. Para mi nada de eso tiene sentido alguno y todas son rasgos que nadie que quiera interactuar con seres humanos debería de tener. Una exageración? No lo creo porque estoy hablando de algo que es propio, personal. Si a ustedes les gustan los ignorantes, es cosa de ustedes, pero sepan que estarán condenados a usar camisetas de fútbol  en días de descanso, van a tener que simplificar su vocabulario para que les entiendan y simplemente va a ser como tener otro trabajo. Y no paga.

 Para mi, ese es el rasgo más horrible que puede tener una persona. A mi los modelos no me interesan ni la gente que vive pendiente de la moda. A menos que tengan algo más detrás, paso derecho. Pero si hay algo que no soporto y es alguien ignorante y que se enorgullezca de ello. Como quienes defienden a capa y espada un partido político, como si lo hubieses fundado ellos mismos o quienes viven por un equipo de fútbol cuando apenas han visto rodar una pelota. Esos que les gusta descrestar con datos curiosos que la mayoría, ignorante también se traga sin pensar pero que son, como él o ella, pura basura.

 Sí. Lamento comunicarles que la gran mayoría de las personas son así. Solo salgan a la calle, caminen unas cuadras y escuchen las conversaciones, vean los comportamientos. Si quieren imaginen que son extraterrestres y verán que si ellos llegasen ahora mismo a la Tierra, se devolverían corriendo a su planeta para prohibir que nadie más nunca venga por estos lados. Eso sí, creo que es justo decir que no todo es nuestra culpa o al menos no de todos. Si somos ignorantes y por eso vivimos siempre igual y con los mismos problemas que nos auto-infligimos, es porque nunca nadie nos enseñó algo mejor y quienes están en puestos de poder se encargaron de que nadie supiese nada porque un ignorante feliz es mejor que alguien con cerebro encabronado.

 De vez en cuando la gente despierta y sale de su aletargamiento pero en muchas ocasiones usan esa energía para estupideces. Como marchar en protesta o discutir airadamente con algún compañero del trabajo. Esas cosas no sirven para nada. La protesta obviamente es una herramienta pero solo sirve cuando se dirige a la persona que necesita oír el mensaje. Gente paseándose por una calle no manda un mensaje claro a nadie y ya depende del que oiga si quiere oírlo todo o solo ignorarlo. Nos falta mucho para saber aprovechar las bellezas que tienen tanto la democracia como la anarquía total.

 Como pueden ver, muchas cosas me sacan de quicio. Hay más, pequeñas cosas como ver automóviles estacionados en zonas prohibidas o gente que ve a todo mundo como mierda porque alguien les mintió alguna vez y ahora se creen de mejor crianza. Pero muchas de las cosas que me rayan la cabeza lo hacen porque no tienen sentido alguno y si algo no tiene sentido es la comunidad gay que de comunidad no tiene nada y de gay, ya tampoco porque incluye a muchos tipos de sexualidad. Algo bueno que ha hecho el ser humano es explorar el placer y eso a dado pie a que todos, o casi, sean visibles en el mundo. Ahora hay tipos de sexualidad o de género que antes ni sabíamos que existían.

 El problema está en concentrarnos a todos en un paquete y decir que eso es inclusión. El argumento cansado y ridículo de que nos toca recluirnos para que hacernos respetar. Básicamente el mismo pensamiento de personas como Hitler o Donald Trump. Así que empezamos mal, sobre todo porque empezó como una lucha por derechos civiles y ahora es un circo, plagado de sin sentidos como que haya discriminación dentro y entre los miembros de la disque comunidad. Unos homosexuales que no les gustan los bisexuales y a estos no les gustan los afeminados y esos les molestan los trangéneros y así hasta que ya nada tiene sentido y se deja ver que cuando la gente lucha, lucha por si misma y casi nunca por un grupo.

 La prueba de esto es que estando el matrimonio igualitario en Estados Unidos, ya la gente cree que se hizo todo cuando no se ha hecho nada. Celebrar los logros de otros es una más de esas cosas que no entiendo, como cuando hay quienes celebran porque su equipo perdió. Entiendo que haya solidaridad y apoyo pero celebrar? Solo un idiota celebra algo que no le beneficia en nada. Pero, como ya dijimos, eso es casi todo el mundo. Como cuando es día de partido y todos suben sus fotos con la camiseta o de pronto pasa algún acontecimiento político importante y todos se vuelven analistas experimentados cuando ni siquiera salen a votar porque creen que eso sirve de algo. Esos somos y así seguiremos.

 Debo decir que no tengo nada de todo lo que he dicho. Sé que algunos pensarán que soy un hipócrita y que escribo esto con la bandera de mi país hondeando en mi pecho o algo así pero la verdad es que no es así. Trato de ser consistente con lo que digo y lo que digo es que todos somos idiotas y en ese aspecto creo que también entro yo porque yo soy de los que me quejo y no hago mucho al respecto. Es como es. Soy de esas personas que lanzan las piedras y no escondo la mano porque ni siquiera sé lanzar. Pero al menos me queda la tranquilidad de saber que sé que hago parte de la humanidad y sin embargo la apoyo en ocasiones y veo destellos de esperanza para todos y cada uno de nosotros.

 Sí, porque no todo es malo. Aunque seamos idiotas casi siempre, todos tenemos momentos de inteligencia, en los que somos brillantes en diferentes ámbitos de la vida. Hay gente que me alegra la existencia con solo una sonrisa y eso creo que me da la esperanza para ser solo un realista y no un pesimista, con todo lo que eso implica. Soy solo un pequeño tipo amargado pero sé que tenemos posibilidades. Para cuando las usaremos? Eso sí, vaya y averígüelo usted, querido lector.

What the past is telling me

   I woke up sweating, trembling a bit even. I had just had one of those dreams about the past, but one that was distorted and made me feel even more lost that what I was back in school. I turned around and realized, relieved, that Paul was there. For a moment, I had thought I was all alone and had to calm myself down by myself, which was difficult because I would always go back to what had made me feel so uneasy instead of calming myself down. But with him there, his warmth and even his smell, the task would be much easier. I just moved closer to him and he moved, putting his arm around me without waking up. With only that, I was able to fall asleep again and, this time, I didn’t have any horrible dreams. It was all blank, just like I preferred it.

 Some hours later, we were having something for breakfast and he asked me about my dream. He said he had heard me wake up but that he had been so tired he had fallen asleep again very fast. I told him nothing and I don’t really understand why. Not only were we closer than ever now, he was one of those people that make you feel good just by being there. But somehow, I decided not to say anything, only that I did not remember anything about the dream, which was I lie. I don’t think he bought that but that didn’t matter. I knew he wasn’t going to start asking more and more questions. That wasn’t he’s style. We just kept eating and said nothing more about my dream or anything related to that.

 Instead, he told me that he really wanted me to go to his next performance in a bar not very far away from my place. Paul was a musician and played the bass in a band. It wasn’t a rock band but I don’t know that much about music so every time someone asks me about what he did, I would say he’s a rocker or that he plays the bass, which makes me sound horribly ignorant. But weirdly enough, he has always liked me to say things like that. I think that’s why we got along so well since the first time we talk to each other. He perceived me as crazy and I felt the same vibe from him. The night we met we kissed and had sex, which made me think I would never see him again. I was so wrong.

 Karma has a way of doing things, or maybe it’s meant to be or whatever… Anyway, the thing was that I saw him everywhere. Every time I went for a beer with my friends, he would be playing with his band there or in the next pub or something. We would run into each other and it was very uncomfortable until he told me that he had being wanting to get my number but couldn’t find me online. I laughed at that remark, possibly because I thought that was something very nice to do and I just gave him my number and from then on we have being close to on e another, without labeling our current situation. He’s not my boyfriend or anything like that. We just spend time together.

 Anyway, I kept the dream to myself. At work, it kept haunting me. Different to other dreams, I remembered everything about this one. The faces, what people said, everything that happened. It was difficult to get away from it and I decided to confront it and just tell someone.  So I went to my best friend and told her everything. But her reaction was not what I was expecting. She told me to explain to her what made me uneasy from the dream because she didn’t understand what it was. I explained to her that the dream dealt with many of my high school classmates and the fact that I had pissed my pants out of fear once when I was like nine or ten. She ten became very serious and told me that probably it was something I had never faced and now it had decided to come back.

 But I didn’t want that to come back. I had worked for many years and with no rest, in order to make myself into someone less sensitive to mockery and laughter and such. Back then, people were very cruel and had treated me in a wrong way and my solution had been to become someone tough, lonely and very sarcastic. It worked beautifully because, although people still talked about me behind my back, I decided I didn’t care and they just wouldn’t say a word. When I graduated, I thought that would be a big shell to pull off my back, but it wasn’t. I realized I needed again, because I had begun dating and I had entered the gay world, which is more complex and awful than people realized.

 I just didn’t want to dream about it again. Yes, I had decided not to confront it and maybe that was why things happened but why confront that and how? Yes, I had being laughed at but who cares? Who hasn’t? I refuse to say I was bullied because that feels wrong, it feels wrong to say it because there was never something as harsh as that… I don’t know. That following night, Paul didn’t come to my house because he had worked to do in his. I realized I had to spend my night alone and that made me think for hours and hours before I went to sleep. With Paul, he had sex and then we fell asleep but without him it was difficult.

 The following day, something happened that made me feel that something didn’t want me to forget about those damn times in school. I was in the grocery store, more like a supermarket, checking for jams and just turned my head and so one of the jocks from high school. Of course, he wasn’t a jock anymore, he looked a bit bigger, much more stupid that ever before, but it was him and I could hear his laughter like in the dream. That distraction was worth a jar of strawberry jam that I mistakenly put in the air instead of the shelf. I was so ashamed with the lady that had to come cleaning and with every single member of the staff of that supermarket. I just paid for the smashed jam and left almost running.

 I got home fast and just stayed there for the rest of the day. I asked for some Chinese food and tried to distract myself with a movie but I had already seen it and I just felt like crying, which I ultimately did. I was sobbing like mad all alone on my sofa and the only thing I could think off was about calling Paul, so I did. I sounded pretty congested when I talked to him and he noticed it right away. I asked him if he could come home for a bit but he told me he was still finishing his work and had so much more to do. He asked me to tell him what was going on over the phone but I just hung up on him because I was disappointed. I had wanted to pull my heart out for him and apparently work was much more important so I called my best friend instead.

 When she arrived, I paid for her taxi because it was late and she did not live close by. As soon as we entered my apartment, I began crying again and just told her everything, how bad it felt that I had to hide my feeling just because some stupid fucking kids had been mean to me for doing something that was normal and for being afraid. They didn’t understand that I felt intimidated by them because they were all friends and I was the new kid that no one wanted to talk to because it felt as if had brought the plague to the school. I didn’t wanted to be popular or anything, I just wanted to fit in and they just gave me the fucking finger.

 And it had been like that for years and year afterwards. People always thinking I had nothing to say or nothing to share and they just put me aside. In college, it was so much better but then it was guys, because I had to like them and felt like shit because the gay fucking world is shallow and they only care if you looked good and I just had a low self-esteem and that didn’t help at all. No boyfriends in several years and the only guy I had met that met something had just refused to come to my home and spent some time with me, when I had been the one to go to his fucking concerts and support him every single time. I was disappointed, hurt and confused by it all.

 My friend took my hand and told me that what I was doing was necessary, to vent all my frustration out and realize what was really bothering. And that was that I felt I needed more than what I have been given. She thought that I had tried so hard to be away from people not to get hurt, that now my need for a human touch was greater that it could have been before and the person that I felt something for was just not there. We were nothing. Not that I needed a boyfriend but I needed commitment more than a name. And, apparently, Paul wasn’t the one to give me that. Besides, we were not “exclusive” and I knew there was at least another guy around. And now that I cared for him so much, it bothered me.

 She stayed the night and we watched movies and ate ice cream. Luckily it was a Thursday, so I could get to work late and my friend had her day off. We talk about her life too, her boyfriend and her crazy mother and I realized that she was one of the things I had always wanted from life: a true friend. I just needed to be a better one myself and realize what was else I needed and wanted for myself, because no one else would do it for me.

Locos sueños

   Si hay algo que me gusta es soñar. Y no, no me refiero a imaginarme cosas que nunca van a pasar pero sin embargo “perseguirlas” hasta que ocurran. En esas estupideces yo no creo. Sería casi como creer en el genio de la lámpara o en el dragón de los deseos o algo por el estilo. No, yo me refiero a los sueños de verdad, esos que tenemos con frecuencia cuando estamos dormidos. Aunque es verdad que, según dicen, siempre soñamos, solo unas pocas veces logramos recordar un sueño y muy pocas veces lo podemos recordar en su totalidad. Pero es un ejercicio divertido: tratar de recordar todas las aventuras o desventuras que acaban de pasar en nuestra cabeza. Para mi, entre más raro y emocionante, mejor. Quiere decir que mi cerebro va muy bien.

 Obviamente las pesadillas no son mis preferidas ni las de nadie. Nos hacen despertar sudando frío y a las cinco de la mañana, sin poder siquiera entender que fue lo que pasó. A veces es porque comimos mucho antes de dormir o porque nos pusimos a leer o ver algo especialmente violento o asqueroso antes de dormir. Por eso siempre es recomendado no sobrecargarse de cosas antes de cerrar los ojos. El cerebro humano es muy fácil de disuadir así que podemos evitar casi todas las pesadillas que tenemos. Eso sí, a pesar de ser estresantes y todas las consecuencias que tienen en nuestra pobre mente, las pesadillas también pueden hablar bien de nuestra capacidad de imaginar e incluso de sentir. Alguien que no haya tenido una, puede ser de desconfiar.

 Normalmente mis sueños, y supongo yo que la mayoría de sueños, se asemeja a una película mal editada. Hay cortes raros por aquí o por allá, que nunca sé si son resultado de mi memoria que borra lo que es de poca recordación o si en verdad mi cerebro pasa de una “escena” a la otra así no más. En mi caso, muchas veces los sueños son como un recorrido. Puedo recordar empezar en algún lado pero también como empiezo a moverme y así circulo a través de diferentes sueños formando una cadena de ellos que puedo conectar por diferentes temas o incluso por los personajes que aparecen allí conmigo.

 Yo siempre soy yo o, al menos, la mayoría de las veces. Creo que a mi cerebro no le gusta mucho la idea de disfrazarme o de hacerme pasar por alguien que no soy. De hecho, podría atreverme a decir que ese es el punto. En nuestros sueños, podemos ser nosotros mismos, los de verdad, sin que nadie pueda decir nada ni prohibir nada. Y cuando digo nosotros mismos, digo todo nuestro ser, como aberraciones, sentimientos, gustos y disgustos. Porque eso es lo que nos hace ser quien seamos así a veces ocultemos o ignoremos ciertos rasgos de nuestro propio ser. En nuestros sueños estamos en casa y en ese sentido no hay por qué ocultar nada de nada de nadie. Solo somos nosotros.

 El sueño de volar es uno de los más comunes y todos lo hemos tenido, o eso creería yo. Supongo que ocurre porque es liberador, porque nos hace sentir verdaderamente libres y además no da un poder que sabemos no es real. Eso nos hace sentir especiales y quién no quiere sentirse especial en este mundo donde, en realidad, nadie lo es? Los sueños son nuestro mundo y son una vía de escape, son lo único que en verdad es nuestro. Nuestros pensamientos también lo son pero estos los podemos compartir e incluso algunas personas los pueden adivinar según nuestro comportamiento. Es muy fácil hacerlo en muchas ocasiones. Pero nadie puede ver los sueños de nadie más ni describírselos a un amigo en detalle.

 Esto es porque, como decíamos antes, nunca nos acordamos de todo lo que ocurre en un sueño. Siempre hay partes que faltan, huecos que ya despiertos muchas veces llenamos de supuestos y conjeturas pero que en realidad siguen inmersos en el misterio. Podemos suponer que lo que recordamos de un sueño es lo más importante pero eso sería tanto como decir que de un viaje largo lo que más recordamos es lo bonito y alegre. Todos sabemos que los accidentes y demás tragedias nos marcan mucho más que un beso o un abrazo. Esa es la triste realidad. Así que cuando nos despertamos recordamos pedazos y ya depende de nosotros si queremos armar algo con esos pedazos o simplemente dejarlo todo quieto y saber que disfrutamos el viaje.

 Porque los sueños son como las montañas rusas o como una caminata por algún lugar especial. Son recorridos, a veces largos y a veces cortos, que terminan y no siempre podemos apuntar cual fue nuestra parte favorita pero sabemos que lo repetiríamos si nuestra sensación al final es de placer o felicidad. Acaso a quién no le ha pasado con sueña con alguien, una persona maravillosa y perfecta? y quisiéramos quedarnos allí con esa persona para siempre pero sabemos que no es posible y entonces queremos seguirlos viendo en sueños pero como no podemos encontrarlos, nunca los vemos más.

 Esos amores de los sueños son intoxicantes porque son ideales, son muchas veces tal y como nos gustaría que fuese la próxima persona que llegase a nuestras vidas. Eso es así porque en nuestros sueños el cerebro coge de todas partes para formar el viaje y toma caras y cuerpos familiares, sensaciones que hemos podido experimentar y lugares que hemos visitado antes. Todo es reciclado y entregado a nosotros en una forma atractiva y diferente, de la que muchas veces quisiéramos saber más. Es un mundo muy poderoso, aquel de los sueños, porque nos muestra lo que más queremos pero sabemos que jamás podremos hacer realidad porque no es algo que sea factible. Ese es el punto de los sueños.

 Por eso es cómico cuando hay personas que dicen que pueden leer los sueños y así decirle a alguien como será su futuro o que quieren decir cada una de las cosas que ocurrieron. Los seres humanos no tenemos ninguna forma de saber nada más que de el presente y si acaso del pasado cuando no lo ignoramos o lo metemos debajo de un tapete. Los sueños no quieren decir nada más allá del significado obvio que tienen para los que los sueña. Es ridículo que alguien venga y te diga que quiere decir todo eso que viste cuando tu lo sabes muy bien porque fuiste tu, tu inconsciente en todo caso, quien creó todo ese maravilloso mundo que desapareció al despertar. Nadie más puede decir nada al respecto.

 Hay sueños que dan miedo, otros que dan felicidad, otros que son muy raros, otros que desarrollan nuestros más bajos instintos y así sigue porque no tienen límite ya que sus únicas fronteras son las que tenemos nosotros en el cerebro. Lo increíble es que los sueños son lo que más tenemos en común los seres humanos, porque todos los hacemos e incluso tenemos sueños similares como los de volar. Y también tenemos en común que para todos son procesos de liberación, así sea por unas cuantas horas. Ni la persona más reprimida deja de soñar y su inconsciente siempre termina mostrando la realidad porque no hay una persona en este mundo que tenga algún control sobre los sueños.

 Y esa es, sin duda, una de sus más bellas características. Esa libertad, esa fluidez e increíble potencial. A veces hay gente que se despierta vigorizada, como si les hubieran inyectado el mejor remedio en existencia. Esa seguramente es la función de los sueños: relajar nuestra mente y darnos un verdadero respiro de todo lo difícil y horrible que hay en el mundo, que es mucho. También esa es la razón por la que, cuando estamos en tiempos difíciles, casi nunca nadie recuerda que soñó. Es como un bálsamo curativo que nuestro propio cerebro nos unta en el alma, corazón o como lo quieran llamar. El caso es que nos ayuda a seguir adelante, da un paso por vez y sin mirar atrás.

 Lo increíble de todo esto es que todo ocurre por nosotros mismos. No hay intervención de nadie más, no hay nadie que nos diga que hacer o como. Los sueños son todo responsabilidad nuestra y por eso es que nos complacen tanto. Nadie los hace para nosotros ni nadie puede criticar su contenido porque ese contenido somos nosotros mismos y la realidad es que, aunque a veces podemos llegar a odiarnos, al fin y al cabo siempre vivimos con nosotros y sabemos como manejar todo tipo de situaciones, incluidos esos locos sueños en los que nos manda nuestro subconsciente, a veces a manera de análisis y otras veces a manera de diversión.

 El caso es que soñar, soñar dormido, es uno de los mayores y más privados placeros de la vida. Son nuestros, son de lo poco que es verdad personal y que no podemos ni siquiera compartir con esa fuerza y empuje que tienen. Lo mejor de los sueños es que nos enseñan pedacitos de quienes somos y así no ayudan a seguir adelante, sin depende de ellos.

Ballet

Ballet was tough. It was hard on the dancers, on the choreographers and even on the audience. But Alexei just loved it. He had begun his dancing at a very young age and his parents had always been very supportive. They were the pillars of his happiness because they had enabled him to become one with dancing and had never missed one of his performances. They were very proud of their son and wanted the best for him and that’s why they supported him with everything he did. Alexei was grateful because, talking to other dancers, he realized things could not have gone so smoothly for him. There was even a dancer that claimed he had been left with an aunt at age seven for him liking ballet.

 Of course, the myth says that if a man likes ballet, both as a spectator and a dancer, then he’s a homosexual. The truth was it was that the statement was accurate very often but not always. Alexei was gay but he had met a lot of heterosexual men that loved dancing at that were even really relaxed about their sex lives. Besides, women apparently loved a guy who was bendy and had a nice body and so on. It was funny sometimes to see Evan, the most heterosexual dancer he had ever seen, just flirting with at least three girls at the same time. It looked ridiculous and funny and also was something to admire about him. The man was really handsome and he was very talented too so the girls got all in one or at least that was what he said. The point was, ballet dancers came in all forms or shapes.

 Actually, the company Alexei danced with praised itself for its variety at the moment of choosing their performances and also for their diversity among the dancers. There were black women and men, Asians, Latinos and so on. And people loved that because they had a certain “Benetton syndrome” where they loved to have all races bond and be happy together, which was clearly not the case in real life. But funny enough, they did feel each other as family. Many would often have lunch together and some even shared an apartment. For example, Alexei lived with Katerina who had been in the company three more years than him. She was very experienced and disciplined but when she wanted she could be very liberated.

 Alexei and Katerina had become very good friends and when she was unable to fin a proper place to stay after her former contract expired, Alexei invited her to live with him. They had fun whenever they were not tired and both there at the same time. They would watch movies together and eat some ice cream, which was forbidden but they did not care. It was a fun way to live because they could also talk about work and ballet in general and they would understand and give tips to one another, something that they wouldn’t be able to do with people out of the medium. So their living arrangement was advantageous for both of them and they had become more of a family than just friends.

 But that changed once the production of Swan Lake begun. Of course, that was a classic and every single member of the company wanted desperately to become well known after receiving the dual role for which everyone knew the play. But that wasn’t going to happen. It had been decided that the role would be played by two people instead of putting all the pressure in one of them. And to make matters more interesting, they also announced that gender would not play a part in any decision concerning any of the roles. They would just mask them or put them in certain costumes if the character had to be man or woman but the person playing them could be either. They announced all of this and the dancers stopped being that family and became almost enemies.

Nice little lunches, smiles, parties, walks and so on stopped. It was as if war had suddenly started and anyone could be a spy or your worst enemy. Alexei regretted this because his main dream was not to become the most well known male ballet dancer. He just wanted to keep learning and getting better and better in his art. For him, ballet was one of those things that elevate the soul and make people forget about every single bad thing that is happening to them. It has the ability to make your soul fly away into a beautiful world that doesn’t exist and feel things that maybe you wouldn’t be able to experience in reality.

 What Alexei regretted more was talking to Katerina. She had been one of the main performers in the company since she had started and didn’t want that to go away. She felt people knew her and that the audience needed to see a proper black swan, the role for which she was practicing. The truth was that many guys and girls wanted that role and not so many wanted the others. Alexei practiced for the role of the prince and just practiced a lot to get it perfectly. They had three months until the casting took place and then the audition results became known and production went ahead like a steam train. It was all a bit scary for Alexei but he knew he had his family and friend at his side.

 After rehearsal, he would often meet with Gabrielle and John. Gabby was one of those girls that is really objective and goes to the point very fast. She told Alexei that, although she didn’t know much about ballet, she did know he was a very good dancer and that every time he showed his talent, people rewarded him in many ways. Gabby was an architect and knew some art. And John was a fashion designer and had always wanted to make something for Alexei but the clothes for the plays were always done by the designer of the theater and in normal life he wasn’t a very big guy in fashion. Anyway, John was also very supportive and told him guys would fly of their seats only to check his ass on those tights, which always made Alexei laugh.

 Alexei rehearse every single day. He woke up early, went to a small room he had booked for several days and just did his routine, number by number. He noticed fast all of his mistakes and made himself learn new things or repeat those that didn’t come naturally to him. At the end of it, after several hours, he was tired, hungry as his feet hurt like hell. But it was worth it, he thought. Alexei felt that performing was always the best way to get the audience into the play and hopefully to get more people to know about ballet, which was ultimately what, he wanted. Although his family was supportive, people in life had been less candid about his choices and he could even say he had been bullied. But he didn’t say it because he wasn’t a victim but a strong person and he refused to bow to weakness.

 That was his ballet persona, if you will, that kicked in life and helped him be who he was. It was this strong attitude that attracted, after one of his rehearsals, a guy named Javier. He was a server in one of the restaurants where Alexei often went after being all day in a closed space. There he could eat a nutritious meal, bound to the rules of the academy, and also do one of the things he liked most which was just look at people passing by on the street. But once Javier started talking to him, while serving or while on a break, he had stopped looking at the people outside and had started looking only at Javier.

 They went out on a date just one week before the audition. Alexei said that his daily rehearsals should be enough to pass the audition and that he didn’t believe in overdoing anything. If he wasn’t ready, it wasn’t going to be solved by getting his feet broken on the last week. So after one of his routine rehearsals, he met with Javier who had a day off and just walked to a park and just chatted there for hours. Javier wasn’t the first guy that he met, of course, but it felt like it. He had never really talked to any guy about what he did, they were always too busy asking how bendy he was and praising him for his looks, something that Javier did but in a much more elegant way. They had dinner together and at the end of the night they kissed goodbye.

 The day of the audition, Alexei gave everything of himself. He thought to himself that this prince was going to be the best thing he would have ever done. He gave him energy and power and the jury saw it because their faces couldn’t hide the fact that they had loved what Alexei had done. Once done, he had to wait outside as the announcement of who had won what role was done only a half hour after they auditioned. Every waited in silence, pacing around and just not even thinking about anything else. Finally, they let them all in in the auditorium and announced the roles. Alexei almost jumped when he got the role of the prince and the guy who got to be white swan was ecstatic. But the black swan wasn’t won by Katerina but someone else.

 He felt bad for his friend but also felt awesome because of his role. He called his parents and Gabby and John and they were all very excited. They only had good wishes for him. Then, he grabbed his coat and went straight to Javier’s place and then they celebrated with cheap wine and sex, but it was the best celebration ever. He was happy know, more than ever. Things may never be that good again and that’s why he was living the moment so beautifully.